To start of with... this is not a story to be of high expectations. This is a very common story, which happens very often in Our or Our Friend's lives :) But by the end... give me the answer... 'Love makes life... Beautiful? Dutyful? Worseful? Or whatever u may feel so...' :)
Basically, it's all about my Friend... A Genius friend... who was not so close to me in my Engineering, but have seen him spend his time with 'Books, Certifications, Coding and such'...! He was very good at them, and when we became close in ILP @ TCS, in Trivandrum... he used to say that... "We should study and study... until we die"...and i was like... ':O' , also, that gave him respect, and people started depending on him, and liking him for his Skills and Helpful nature :) Many became his Fans :)
From such fans of his... One girl, became a better Fan than others...and that made all the difference :)
They grew Close... Closer...and now became the Closest....! That's definitely not an issue. It happens with most of us ;) rite? : D Even i'm very happy for them, and they both have high plans for future. So all is set. :)
But... the issue now here, is... In ILP, we had Ratings for performance... and as far as i have known him... he is the Best in that ILP batch. He could have easily challenged many other Genius performers, and could have Beat them too... for a '5 *' Rating. But what happened? He got '3 *' Rating :p
- Well, this is not anyone's mistake, but of his own. He could have concentrated on his work, apart from Love... but he didn't... and '3 *' is very less for his talent....! :|
Anyway, now we were done with ILP and got Posted in Hyderabad. Expected 3 of my Best Friend's to stay with me in Hyd. But one got transferred to Chennai. So, sharing room with 2 now. (One is this Hero, and other is... hmm... another Hero (Because, even he has a story ;)
Our expectation from Hyd was that... I and this Hero Friend would join Japanese classes, Learn Java, Do some internal Projects, be initiative in every programme conducted by L and D and so on...
But the reality is... His position grew worse...and...
In Office - Of the 5 hours we stay in office, he will be on phone for 3 hours atleast.
Sleep - Yes he does sleep, but only for 2 hours... i.e, 3 a.m to 5 a.m.
Food - We plan to eat together... and we start together as well... but he will reach us, finishing his Call's, only when we are done with our Food... !! Is that call'ed eating together? :|
In Room - We will reach room by 3 p.m. He will get freshed, changes his dress and leaves off saying..."I'm going on duty", and will reach only by 6 p.m or so...! Even in roaming (Hyd-Chennai) they are so...!
- Ofcourse even in the remaining time at room... he will Call... once every 5 minutes...!
Movie - He plans to watch a movie on TV. As the movie starts, he will go out on a call, and will come only when Commercials start. When the movie is exactly about to start... he will get a call again :p
Now you might be wondering... why the hell am i bothered about him so much... as... it is his personal life, and he has every right to do what ever he wants to do....! Yes, that's true... But...
I made my transfer to Hyd... to be with him and to spend time with him. But he is with his phone, all the time...! :| Ofcourse i know that it's very common in love. Even i have had manyyyy situations, where i used to speak on Phone's for hours together...! But i'm retired now ;) and he is new to this Job...!
- And strictly, i have had no experience being with Lovers... and that is making all the difference.
Also, we planned for many things... Japanese classes, Java learnings, Own internal projects, etc. Ofcourse he is saying that he would help me, and join me... but from where the heck will he get time, when he is spending almost 20 hours a day on Phone call's....! :|
Not only from my perspective, but even he himself is getting Frustrated... by the way, things have turned out. He basically have manyyy tensions, and now his life took a total diversion...inviting new problems of 'Marriage' and all....!!! I just pity his situation, where he can neither cut the call nor ignore the call... even if he wants...! Not that the girl would kill him... but it's just that, she is too sensitive and just Cries and Cries... until he beg's her, and makes her normal... in about an hour.
He is on the verge of losing everything he had... being fallen in love. He actually deserves to be in Microsoft or Google. But came to TCS. ok. not bad. Here, atleast he deserves '4 *' rating, but got satisfied with a '3 *' rating. In Hyd, he wanted to learn... and improve his career... but ... he himself is 'laughing' on himself...! I know things happen like that. But he himself is saying that.... "Jindagi...kaha se kaha aagayi...!"
I know that love is Sweet and love makes Life Beautiful, for many. Dutyful too for some. Stressful to a few....! But what does it really make...? Beautiful or Stressful?
* One thing to be cleared :- My Friend and That girl... both are very good, and probably Best of a kind :) But it's just that... I miss him. I miss the valuable time we used to spend together in past...! But on the other hand, he is still with me.. and i'm happy for him. Also, i pity his situation too...! He himself does : D *
Basically, it's all about my Friend... A Genius friend... who was not so close to me in my Engineering, but have seen him spend his time with 'Books, Certifications, Coding and such'...! He was very good at them, and when we became close in ILP @ TCS, in Trivandrum... he used to say that... "We should study and study... until we die"...and i was like... ':O' , also, that gave him respect, and people started depending on him, and liking him for his Skills and Helpful nature :) Many became his Fans :)
From such fans of his... One girl, became a better Fan than others...and that made all the difference :)
They grew Close... Closer...and now became the Closest....! That's definitely not an issue. It happens with most of us ;) rite? : D Even i'm very happy for them, and they both have high plans for future. So all is set. :)
But... the issue now here, is... In ILP, we had Ratings for performance... and as far as i have known him... he is the Best in that ILP batch. He could have easily challenged many other Genius performers, and could have Beat them too... for a '5 *' Rating. But what happened? He got '3 *' Rating :p
- Well, this is not anyone's mistake, but of his own. He could have concentrated on his work, apart from Love... but he didn't... and '3 *' is very less for his talent....! :|
Anyway, now we were done with ILP and got Posted in Hyderabad. Expected 3 of my Best Friend's to stay with me in Hyd. But one got transferred to Chennai. So, sharing room with 2 now. (One is this Hero, and other is... hmm... another Hero (Because, even he has a story ;)
Our expectation from Hyd was that... I and this Hero Friend would join Japanese classes, Learn Java, Do some internal Projects, be initiative in every programme conducted by L and D and so on...
But the reality is... His position grew worse...and...
In Office - Of the 5 hours we stay in office, he will be on phone for 3 hours atleast.
Sleep - Yes he does sleep, but only for 2 hours... i.e, 3 a.m to 5 a.m.
Food - We plan to eat together... and we start together as well... but he will reach us, finishing his Call's, only when we are done with our Food... !! Is that call'ed eating together? :|
In Room - We will reach room by 3 p.m. He will get freshed, changes his dress and leaves off saying..."I'm going on duty", and will reach only by 6 p.m or so...! Even in roaming (Hyd-Chennai) they are so...!
- Ofcourse even in the remaining time at room... he will Call... once every 5 minutes...!
Movie - He plans to watch a movie on TV. As the movie starts, he will go out on a call, and will come only when Commercials start. When the movie is exactly about to start... he will get a call again :p
Now you might be wondering... why the hell am i bothered about him so much... as... it is his personal life, and he has every right to do what ever he wants to do....! Yes, that's true... But...
I made my transfer to Hyd... to be with him and to spend time with him. But he is with his phone, all the time...! :| Ofcourse i know that it's very common in love. Even i have had manyyyy situations, where i used to speak on Phone's for hours together...! But i'm retired now ;) and he is new to this Job...!
- And strictly, i have had no experience being with Lovers... and that is making all the difference.
Also, we planned for many things... Japanese classes, Java learnings, Own internal projects, etc. Ofcourse he is saying that he would help me, and join me... but from where the heck will he get time, when he is spending almost 20 hours a day on Phone call's....! :|
Not only from my perspective, but even he himself is getting Frustrated... by the way, things have turned out. He basically have manyyy tensions, and now his life took a total diversion...inviting new problems of 'Marriage' and all....!!! I just pity his situation, where he can neither cut the call nor ignore the call... even if he wants...! Not that the girl would kill him... but it's just that, she is too sensitive and just Cries and Cries... until he beg's her, and makes her normal... in about an hour.
He is on the verge of losing everything he had... being fallen in love. He actually deserves to be in Microsoft or Google. But came to TCS. ok. not bad. Here, atleast he deserves '4 *' rating, but got satisfied with a '3 *' rating. In Hyd, he wanted to learn... and improve his career... but ... he himself is 'laughing' on himself...! I know things happen like that. But he himself is saying that.... "Jindagi...kaha se kaha aagayi...!"
I know that love is Sweet and love makes Life Beautiful, for many. Dutyful too for some. Stressful to a few....! But what does it really make...? Beautiful or Stressful?
* One thing to be cleared :- My Friend and That girl... both are very good, and probably Best of a kind :) But it's just that... I miss him. I miss the valuable time we used to spend together in past...! But on the other hand, he is still with me.. and i'm happy for him. Also, i pity his situation too...! He himself does : D *
