!...Orange Love...! (Part-2)

Hope you have read the 'Part-1' of this Blog...!
 
 I would like to mention certain points, which made this film (Orange)... the most favourite of all others movies, in my life.
 
 1) He has had 9 love stories before Jaanu, and even then, Jaanu loved him...Only because.. He is honest, loyal, true to face and by nature, and really lovable...! (Ofcourse he has had some physical contact with other girls, but he has not crossed limits...!)

   Now the point is... there are certain people who argue that " True Love " can happen only once, and all others are just attractions...!!!   I deny the argument.

-> When you are true, and doing nothing wrong with anyone, and respecting the individual; then you have every right to love another person, on mutual understanding and by not breaking their Trust, if its not working out with One.

(Here, i am not asking you to 'Love' and 'Leave'...! Understand the point. No matter how well we try, some times, things wont work out, and there is nothing wrong in loving another person, in such cases)

 2) In this film, there are certain characters, who oppose Ram, in his argument of "love is NOT ever lasting"...! For all of them, Ram asks certain questions, as a part of 'truth and dare game', and makes them realise that he was right.

For exp: Have you ever lied to your boy friend/girl friend?
* Have you ever said that, he/she doesn't look good?
* Have you ever felt that, you are with wrong person?
* Are you now-a-days feeling that, it would better if he/she doesn't call you?
* What if a beautiful girl comes to you and asks, what do u want of me.. Love or Sex..? What would u choose? (The best answer was to say..."I'm already in love", if you are committed and want to be true to your love)... and so on...!

   Just question yourselves too, and if you have any such symptoms... please don't hesitate to get them cleared, before its too late.

3) Ram's argument was not to 'love and leave'. He says..."lets forget everything and lets love as much as we can...! But, only until... 'lies' & 'avoidance' start playing a major role among our relationship...!"

 Seriously... no matter how well you are in love; for some people, at some point of time... "Avoidant nature" shows up. (This might not happen to all pairs, but happens to most of them) Reason might be due to work pressure, or family tensions or being away on a travel or whatever it might be...! At such times, best solution is to 'Sit and talk and resolve', than to get frustrated and fight over it...!!! And if things can't be worked out... then its better to 'Leave', than to drag things up and worsen them...!

 4) This film also has a character... who will be in love with Jaanu for 12 long years...! But he will never propose her or never let her know his feelings...!

   Whereas Ram, gets into action as soon as he see's Jaanu and expresses his love in such a way that, she becomes irresistable in his love...! (She likes 'Lion jokes', and so he takes her directly to 'Wild Lion Safari'; she likes 'Action', and he gets a chance to fight with some 'thugs' to save her from... and so on)

-> Now, the point is... "You should always showcase yourselves. You should let your girl know... what you actually are, and what you actually have, and what you are capable of".

   Just say, you have a Shop, and customers are coming in, but are unable to find the required goods on showcase, and are leaving without buying anything. But in real, you have all that they need... but in the 'Store room'...! Then what is the use...?? There's no use in keeping your feelings in the Store room...! :)
   So, One should let their Love, know... whatever they have, inorder to let their love get, what they were in search of...!

 5) Ram has changed 9 girls, but he was true to all, and said the same to each and every one of them. He said what all has actually happened, and why his love has not worked out..., And why he is in love again...! Only then, his new love story, took its wings...!

   Whereas, there is a character in the film, who maintains two girls at the same time. He 'bluffs and flirts' with both of them at the same time...! The result being... he will lose both of them, and also gets f*c*ed up... for lying all the time...!

 6) Also this film has a character, who gets into fight with his wife... all the time. Gets frustrated, and depressed ... but never gives up hope on her... even tough she looks worse...! He compromises more...the more...he gets pissed off by his wife...!

-> This influences Ram, towards the end of story... and he himself changes accordingly, when the guest character says..." you should start compromising, else you will be left only with reasons, towards the end"...!
   And then, Ram starts compromising with his life, according to Jaanu's will. (Starts playing Golf, goes for a job, sacrifices his love for graffiti, etc)

-> Now, the point is... "We should compromise in love, at times... to keep some relation ships alive. Because... at the end, we shouldn't be just left out with reasons...!"


 Now, thus were some main points in this film, which have influenced my life a lot.
* I have started being true to my love (no matter how bad the truth might be),
* I have started being honest,
* I have started compromising, to keep her happier...! :)
* I always do show case what all i have ;) [I never boast. I just show, what i am]
* I also have made up my mind to be in the relationship only until its 'sweet and simple'...!
   (But ofcourse, its not really in our hands to leave... when your Special One is holding you back, with all their might. :) So, i gave up...trying to get away.. ! :)

- Love. Be True. Get Loved. Enjoy life -